Role play

What the booking involves

When you book a scenario, you're arranging time with an escort around a particular theme or setting you've both agreed on. It isn't a performance she gives to you, it's a shared scene you've constructed together. The escort plays a part; you play yours. Both of you need to know the shape of the evening before it begins, which is why the conversation before booking matters more than it does for a straightforward dinner date.

Most scenarios run for a set number of hours. Alee works across dinner dates and evenings out in Amsterdam, and she's clear about duration when you book. Same with Alessia, who's 24 and based in Amsterdam; she takes dinner dates and evening bookings. The time includes travel, setup, the scene itself, and a transition back to the ordinary. Don't expect the scenario to fill every minute. There's conversation before it starts, and often after. That's part of it.

The scenario might be something you've both discussed in detail beforehand, or it might follow a loose framework you've outlined together. Either way, you'll confirm the essentials: the setting (a particular restaurant in the Grachtengordel, a hotel bar in De Pijp, somewhere else), the character she'll adopt, what you'll do and say, and crucially, what's off-limits. That last part isn't negotiable. An experienced escort like Alexandra, who's 41 and works across a broad range of bookings, will tell you directly if something doesn't suit her. Listen.

Practical arrangement

Contact the escort through the site: that's where her availability lives, and it's where she keeps records. Don't switch to another platform or phone number. Describe what you're after. Be concrete. "I'd like to book an evening where you play a particular character at a restaurant" is better than something vague. If you have specifics about dress, accent, attitude or setting, mention them now.

She'll either confirm she's available and interested, or she won't. If she confirms, you'll arrange the date and time. You'll likely discuss the scenario in more detail: what she'll wear, where you'll meet, how the evening will unfold. Some escorts want a deposit; others don't. That's between you and her. The site's terms cover what happens if you cancel.

Izabelle is 35, 176cm tall, and speaks five languages including Dutch, French, Spanish and Italian. Height and language ability together make her a common choice for scenarios with a continental feel. Celine is 25, blonde, 175cm, and particularly suits evenings out where her height reads as part of the scene.

Turn up on time. Bring cash if you've agreed on cash. Dress as you said you would. If the plan was to meet at a restaurant in the Jordaan at 8pm, be there at 7:55. Nothing flags inexperience or disrespect like lateness when someone's taken the trouble to prepare a scenario for you.

What discretion means here

Discretion doesn't mean secrecy, it means not broadcasting details about her or the evening. Don't post about it online. Don't mention her name to acquaintances. Don't describe the scenario to friends. If you run into her elsewhere in Amsterdam, you don't know her. That applies even if the scenario was elaborate or memorable. The rule is simple: what happens on her time stays on her time.

Katy works across dinner dates and evenings in Amsterdam; she's 25 and takes bookings with discretion built in. So does Joy, who's 23 with an unusually broad list of bookings. Clarissa, 26, works on shorter bookings rather than all-nighters, and she'll expect the same discretion from you.

Some scenarios suit particular occasions. If you're celebrating something and want that reflected in the evening, tell her. If you want to practice social skills in a low-stakes setting, that's worth mentioning. If you've been fantasising about a particular kind of evening and want to step into it for real, an escort who takes scenarios seriously will help you do that without pretence.

Kim is 24 with an unusual combination of black hair and blue eyes; clients notice it, and that pairing can suit certain scenarios. Pandora is 25, one of the smallest escorts on the roster at 158cm, blonde with brown eyes. Lunnie is the most petite at 153cm, 25, brown hair and brown eyes, slim. Lisa is 31, 175cm, tall and fair with a DD cup, one of the fuller figures in Amsterdam. Miki is 23, 168cm, with a D cup on a slim frame. Nina, 42, holds the fullest figure on the Amsterdam roster; she's blonde with green eyes and an E cup.

What you actually need is an escort who listens to what you want, can picture the scene, and will tell you honestly if it won't work. Cleopatra, at 42, is among the most experienced escorts on the site. Lavinia is 24, 170cm, black hair and brown eyes, and takes dinner dates and evening bookings. Bianca is 24, 168cm, slim with brown hair and blue eyes, and her list covers dinner, nights out and overnight bookings. Kimberly is the tallest at 182cm, 35 years old, black hair and brown eyes. Angella speaks English, French and Spanish, is 31, 160cm, and works a broad list from Amsterdam. Bella's list in Amsterdam is one of the broadest we hold. Ariel is 22, 160cm, and takes dinner dates. Cleo is 27, 160cm, brown hair and brown eyes. Lucy is 28, 166cm, brown hair and brown eyes. Dalya is 27, 166cm with the uncommon pairing of black hair and blue eyes.

The evening works because both of you know what you're doing. That knowledge comes from being honest about what you want beforehand. It's the difference between a scenario that feels right and one that feels awkward or forced.